Our Journey of Grace

Grace floating in the ocean water with her safety gear.

As two surfers, we had always dreamed of raising a little surfer girl. We imagined family surf sessions from the moment she could stand on a board, epic adventures in search of waves, and maybe one day, seeing her become a surf coach in our business.

Grace enjoying a walk in her beach buggy!

But life had other plans. When our daughter was born, our world changed in an instant. She was diagnosed with a rare condition called Muscle Eye Brain disease, a disorder that affects all three organs its name implies. The diagnosis meant that she would face significant physical and cognitive challenges, be wheelchair-bound, and remain dependent on us for her entire life.

The Stoked Surf Family-Michelle, Joshua, David and Grace

The dreams we had for her—and for our family—were shattered. Overnight, we had to adjust to a reality we’d never prepared for, filled with uncertainties, heartbreak, and the need to rewrite our story.

Grace enjoying a stand-up paddleboard with Mom

It was during this time that we began to understand the importance of having a strong support system. The challenges we faced as a family were overwhelming, but the love and guidance of dedicated therapists, teachers, and caregivers carried us through. Their compassion, patience, and expertise helped us navigate a world we never thought we’d enter, and in turn, they helped transform our lives.

These experiences gave us a profound appreciation for organisations like Sinethemba Special Care Centre, which offers love, care, and dignity to children with severe special needs and their families. They provide not just physical care but a space of hope, joy, and belonging—a lifeline for families facing immense challenges.

This journey of grace has taught us more than we ever could have imagined. While our dreams of raising a surfer girl have changed, they’ve been replaced by something far deeper: a passion for supporting others in similar circumstances and helping children with special needs experience the beauty, joy, and healing power of the ocean.

Grace catching her first wave with Dad
By supporting Sinethemba, we honour the strength, resilience, and beauty of our daughter’s journey—and we hope to inspire others to give back, spread compassion, and make a difference where it’s needed most.

Read here on how you can help Sinethemba.

Michelle and David at the Sinethemba Beach Day

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Sanne Fernhout
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We go to Cape Town every year now for the last 6 years, and we always take one or two mornings to surf with Stoked. And it always is one of the highlights of my trip to SA. They are the funniest and most professional group of people, we always had an absolute 10/10 experience surfing with them. They genuinely care about you learning to surf but at the same time having a great experience and loads of fun. I surfed with Alfi, Alexi and David and they are fantastic teachers. I would absolutely recommend anyone to surf with them, you will not regret it!!
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Roxanne Long
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A big thank you to the whole Stoked Surf team for making your holiday camp a safe, supportive and overall wonderful experience. For the admin work, the driving, the prepping, the training, the support, the laughs and of course, that elation at managing to stand up and 'ride' for the first time - you've all been fabulous. We'll see you again!
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Jason Warren
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We had an awesome time! Would highly recommend taking a lesson here - we arrived as tourists and left as surfers. We learned a lot and had a ton of fun. Great experience!
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Vivi Hinzke
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Michelle and her team are amazing. They always try to create the perfect experience. I can really recommend them!
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Marie Dittrich
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Amazing surf experiences with Stoked Surf School in Capetown!The beautiful beach in Muizenberg and the great surf conditions made my surf lessons an unforgettable experience! The instructor Henri was super kind and helpful and really made the surf lessons an amazing time! The lessons were adjusted to my personal surf level, that was really effective. Great equipment too! Can highly recommend to everyone who‘s ready to have an amazing time standing up on the board! :))
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Marlon Berndt
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I took 7 lessons in total over a time of 4 weeks. I had never really surfed before, but with the help of Henri, probanly one of the best Surf teachers in capetown, I became a pretty decent surfer I would say. Appart from that the service and the people where super nice and I had an amazing time learning to surf at Stocked. 10/10 ; )
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yara el saadani
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What a great experience ! Great way to end our SA holiday, Henri our instructor was great. Highly recommended
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Bryan Chester
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Surf guide; If you want to surf Cape Town it’s almost silly not to use Stoked to guide. The magic of Cape Town is beaches all over to accept different swell and wind directions, size etc. Trying to find the right spot solo would be a waste of your short time here. Michelle was awesome. She took me to several spots tailored to the conditions and what I was looking for. We paddled out at an uncrowded spot, clean waves and exactly what I wanted. Board was almost exactly what I ride at home, wetsuit solid. Most importantly, Michelle is a pleasure of a human being. Great person to spend the morning with and have a surf. Recommended times infinity.
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Courtney Overton
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Henri was an absolute blast to learn to surf with. My husband and I did private lessons with him and are a relatively different levels of experience and comfort. Henri was able to work with us both and was super encouraging. I would absolutely recommend joining a Stoke Surf lesson if you have the time!